Don’t Face Your Fear Or Maybe?

First off, thank you for always reading, commenting, and sharing my articles. Your support means the world to me, and I pray that God Almighty blesses you abundantly.  

I’ve been so busy lately that I’m actually writing this in a waiting room, moments before a meeting. Life’s been a whirlwind, but amidst the chaos, I felt the need to jot down a few thoughts—whether they amount to “something” or “nothing,” I’ll leave for you to decide.  

Should You Face Your Fears?  

There’s a saying we’ve all heard since childhood: “Face your fears!” It’s one of those motivational phrases that gets thrown around like confetti. But as always, I like to question the obvious.  

From my perspective, maybe you shouldn’t face your fears. Here’s why:  

-Afraid of heights? Don’t go standing on the edge of a skyscraper. The anxiety could overwhelm you, and that’s not bravery—it’s danger.  

- Afraid to start something new? Stick with what works if it’s giving you results. Why shake up a winning formula?  

- Afraid of risks? Then avoid them. Risks can lead to failure, and sometimes staying in your comfort zone is safer.  

- Afraid of writing an exam? Don’t take it. Relax and enjoy the comfort of your current situation.  

That’s my take—sometimes fear protects you. After all, what’s the point of forcing yourself into situations that might harm you? But… there’s always another side to the story.  

 

What If Fear Isn’t Real?  

I once read that 95% of the things we fear never actually happen. Looking back at my life, I believe it. The majority of the situations that terrified me turned out to be harmless or manageable.  

So, what happens when fear stops you from living fully? Consider this:  

- Fear of heights: One day, you might need to climb to help someone or overcome an obstacle. Letting fear stop you could leave you with lifelong regret.  

- Fear of risks: Avoiding them may keep you safe, but you’ll stay stuck where you are. Growth requires stepping outside your comfort zone.  

- Fear of failure: If you don’t try, you’ll never learn. Trying and failing is not failure—it’s part of the process.  

Courage doesn’t mean you’re not afraid; it means you act despite your fear.  

 The Balance Between Fear and Courage  

So, should you face your fears? The answer isn’t black and white. Sometimes, avoiding fear is the best way to protect yourself. But other times, fear is just a reaction—a temporary emotion that disappears when you take the first step.  

Ultimately, facing your fears can lead to freedom, growth, and fulfillment. But only you can decide when it’s worth taking that leap.  

Fear is a reaction; courage is a decision.  

Thanks for reading, whether this was “nothing” or “something.” I’m grateful for your time and support.  

Your friend,  

K. Nakamoto